Is It Love?
The narcissist sweeps you away in the beginning.
The narcissist cares and supports you.
Is it love?
Whether a romantic or familial situation with the narcissist, the narcissist behaves in so many ways which cause you to believe that he or she loves you, but is it the case?
- Does the narcissist love?
- Can the narcissist begin by loving you and then it fades?
- Can the narcissist learn to love you?
- Does the narcissist have his or her own way of loving you?
- What is love based on?
- Why does the narcissist´s behaviour cause you to believe you are being loved?
- If it is not love from the narcissist what is it?
- If it is not love from the narcissist, what are you seeing when you are being seduced?
- How can you understand whether it is love or not?
Understanding “Is It Love” will enable you to tackle emotional thinking and make sense of the behaviour of the narcissist towards you and this Logic Bulletin addresses key information to answer those questions that occupy your thoughts.Use it also as part of your Future Protection against being caught again, either by the existing narcissist or a new one.
Sharpen your Logic Defences and recognise how infatuation manifests in the mind of the narcissist with these intriguing portrayals. Use your acquired knowledge and narc craft to ascertain who the narcissist is infatuated with and what school of narcissist is infatuated.
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Reading some of the comments prior to my joining KTN, I came across this word “sapiosexual”. This is very interesting (not surprising).
I cannot recall if I have mentioned it previously on this blog – yet, I was reading (trying to find out why he was behaving the way he was……laughing…….obvs, fkg obvs, I was looking in the WRONG places!!! I am laughing now!). Probably around late 2016 when I came across ‘sapiosexual’. I found it very interesting. And then I says to him “You’re a sapiosexual”. I gets the blank look. Laughing……
I do recall asking when MRN was ‘attracted’ to me, response was at the FIRST meeting (others were present). Looking back, I said some interesting things at that meeting (smart-ass type but in a polite way, laughing as I type this). Another couple of narcissists were also present at this meeting (obviously, I did not know they were, at the time!) – one from an authority body. Some blank looks or 404s in that room on that day. Shit! I wish I knew back then (about narcissism), ah, fk. Such a missed opportunity!! Laughing.
Ok, I have also said previously on this blog, that I cannot do boring, unintelligent conversations. Oops. Now I know why. I must state, that I do not get ‘turned on’ with every intelligent man that I meet. If they lack the sense of humour, bye-bye. If they lack the idiosyncrasy, bye-bye. I have never really been the type to go for looks first either. It’s an interesting observation about me, on my part.
For a very long time, maybe I was actually ‘asexual’. Laughing. Maybe the ‘intellectual’ conversations became ‘lacking’ because they led to the numerous ‘pity-plays’. In my view, the ‘dynamics’ changed from the ‘interesting’ to the ‘needy’.
The Lesser & MRN ‘sensed’ my: inner strength; confidence; intellectual / intelligence; strong-minded ‘attitude’; lateral thinking; kindness; generosity, so many qualities that the Lesser totally lacked. Mother and other narcissists tried to ‘compress’ that within me.
Knowing myself is so good to realise.
“scientia potentia est” Sir Francis Bacon 1597
“The purpose of education is to make good human beings with skill and expertise….Enlightened human beings can be created by teachers” APJ Abdul Kalam
The above quote, in my view, is apt as to how and what HG is creating, in the form of empowered empaths and educating others that need to know too.
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HG, I need to advise you that the links don’t work