HG Mauls the Middle Mid Range Type A
An absolute powerhouse of information about the Middle Mid-Range Type A which includes a wealth of information about the two “A” subsets.
HG Tudor as The Ultra has no allegiance to other narcissists and for you this is a good thing.
You are about to be educated and entertained as HG Tudor takes each sub school of narcissist and gives them a compact mauling for their failings and their collective disgrace to the narcissist brethren!
HG has summoned the various groups of narcissists before him as he delivers this compact mauling about their shortcomings which result in his visceral disgust for them. This mauling will enable you to understand far more about the characteristics of the relevant sub school of narcissist which includes the following
1. Appearance
2. Overall approach to the control of others
3. The nature of dynamics with romantic partners, friends, family and colleagues.
4. Levels of awareness
5. Differing styles of behaviour and how this manifests
6. The weaknesses of these narcissists
7. The self-perception adopted by these narcissists
8. How they approach manipulations
and more.
This collection will enable you to understand far more about what each sub school looks like and how they behave which adds to your armoury of knowledge. Even better, it is delivered in the form of a mauling from HG Tudor so you can gain a vicarious pleasure from his verbal volleys without any risk to you.
HG Mauls the Middle Mid Range Type A Narcissist
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Addendum……
I was getting my bin in and I observe neighbour’s daughter walking past my house. She appeared to have an air of smugness about her before she spoke, I think she said something to me and did look in my direction but I completely ‘snubbed’ her. No eye contact. Nada.
Ah, such is the empowerment of knowledge…… sublime. I ‘glide gracefully’ back into my house. LOL.
I don’t know the actual school (couldn’t care less really, but certainly not a clever one) of my neighbour’s daughter. However, I was reminded of a recent conversation I had with my other neighbour – the first proper chat because of Covid & distancing – anyway, she was surprised to learn that there had been a dispute about the boundary between the Sasquatches and me (and, no, I did not use that name, nor mention narcissism at all). I gave brief details of what happened and that a chartered surveyor was involved. I mentioned that I did not like the daughter’s “attitude” and rudeness towards me and a friend so we do not speak. I do not sense narcissist in the lady I spoke with recently. Nothing she said, nor in the actions in the nearly 2 years of being here has given me any course of concern. It’s great to know.
My sister’s new BF is a MR. I can’t help but sneer when I think of them. He’s thinks he is such a “good person”.
Now, he is angry with her for “talking bad” about him to us (her family) and making him “look bad”. No. That mutherfucker brought it upon himself.
Of all narcs I got to know, the Middle Mid Range A was the WORST and the most difficult to recognize!
Same, and since that is they and the B’s are the ones most drawn to me, it is especially dangerous, and scary. I wish the lessers were drawn to me, so much easier to spot.
Is your mum a MMR A, A Victor? I’ve been educating myself today and am sure that’s my mum and I remember you saying that your mum sounded very similar to mine… 🤔 I found her hard to identify until the angel with a dirty face video, her hoovers and pity plays std v subtle. They are bloody hard to spot! 🥷 I think I knew one more (don’t see them anymore as their empathy was sorely lacking when it should have been forthcoming).
Hi Jade,
No, my mom is a LMR. But all the mid rangers can have the angel with a dirty face element and pity plays etc. She just leans more into raging than the MMR and UMR. It happened a lot when I was a kid. Now she doesn’t go there as often, though she still will, but now uses other manipulations more. Not that she didn’t also use them when I was a kid but with age and changes in the family structure, she uses rage much less.
She recently said, as part of a pity play, that she recognized that she was a little harsh with us when we were kids. I didn’t respond. Her attempt to continue using her abuse to abuse.
So sorry I missed this AV after asking 🤦♀️and thank you Leigh for flagging it. I appreciate your response AV.
Interesting. 🤔 Mine is MMRa I think, I remembered you saying about the religious aspect and similarities with our mum’s but that all makes sense in terms of the raging you describe. Also as you said all mid rangers can be angels with dirty faces. My mum doesn’t really rage and actually her facade is good at home.. she’s damn good with the facade actually 😤. I see the cracks more and more now “I know” but it’s not often it slips and her gaslighting etc is always deniable, tied up to look like caring.
I even thought maybe she was a greater fir a while because of this but reading more on greaters makes me doubt it. She is a housewife, mum and nurse so unlikely though she has quite a big fuel matrix / “friends she gossips with”. She likes to cry a lot to look like she cares too.
It’s interesting how your mum is changing as she ages. That makes sense. Good job on not responding to the pity play. I like HGs reminder that every interaction with a narc is manipulation.. it stops us slipping up doesn’t it?
Thank you again. ❤️
Hi Jade, glad you found it. To clarify, not all mid rangers will necessarily have the full on Angel with a dirty face, it is not my mom’s first go to but she can use it. My dad sometimes did also though it was not as frequent with him. He was a UMR and was more likely to do silent treatments, both present and absent. My mom will use tears and triangulation more frequently.
Oh, also, no problem Jade, I lose comments too, there are so many!
Thanks AV. I think it’s in their “toolkit” but some use it note than others… 🤔
Meanwhile, our empath par excellence is coming soon with the new sequel of one of my favorite movies of all times. The soundtrack sounds promising too https://youtu.be/9ix7TUGVYIo
This is so exciting! I’ve recently been thinking to watch the original again, it’s one I watch every so often, not so with most movies, but this is a special one.
Me too AV! I have watched it a million times but I always enjoy watching it once more after a while has passed since the last time. I have a book called The Matrix and Philosophy that you may find very interesting.
Sweetest Perfection, thank you for the recommendation, I will check it out!
I am really enjoying this book SP! I found it for free online and am making my way through it as time permits. It is right up my alley! You are perceptive!! Thank you again for the recommendation!
Yay!! This makes me so happy! If I had to be a chapter, I would definitely be 9: “There’s No Spoon.” I’m glad you found it for free, I bought a copy yesterday as a matter of fact as a gift to a colleague with whom I was discussing metaphysics last week, I hope she likes it too. Oh I wish we could have a chat about it! But this is not the venue and I don’t want HG to call my attention. Although “Kant Explains How to Manipulate The Matrix” sounds quite narcy to me, haha!
I have a book called The Hunger Games and Philosophy 🙂
I’m guessing they’re from the same series, with lots of different contributors, and definitely a fascinating read.
Yay, the most handsome Empath ever! 😉
Couldn’t agree more Leela. They are definitely the most difficult to spot out of all the sub schools. Even lower mid rangers and upper mid rangers are easier to spot than them. What sucks is that they may be the most prevalent sub school of narcissists. Can’t stand those turds!
Can´t stand them either! Their Boo Hoo Pity Parties are horrible!
Interesting to read Leela, but I’d like to understand more. What made this type the worst?
Their sugar coated facade which makes them so hard to spot and their horrible, terrible, disgusting Pity Parties!
Oops, I don´t know where my answer went, but let´s try it again: I think they are the worst because they are so hard to spot and their manipulations are so sugar- and honey-coated. Until you get painted black! And then you are bewildered and totally confused why this “good and sweet person” has turned into a “monster”.
I agree. Thankfully, we know what to look for and how to deal with them.