The Narcissistic Truths – No 133
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SNOW
Darling, Doms would not be wearing the ball gag or blindfold lol. Doms are the doers and not the done to in this situation. This is where the roles are reversed (temporarily). Good lord, patent latex spandex. Youll be over in the corner with a yeast infection trying to get relief from a cleated shoe. I prefer leather-it breathes. But you do you lol.
I’m dying NarcAngel! Shoe cleats!!! 😂😂
Snow honey, sounds like you’re going to have to ditch the spandex and go with body paint.
Hello Love,
I love body paint!!!!
I used to watch Skin Wars and wanted to paint my ex when we went to Comic Con.
Oh my goodness Snow! That’s so cool you’re a Comic Con girl! I’m sure all the dudes would have been salivating if you did.
Lol NA,
My first job was working in a leather store.
My love for leather started there.
SNOW
Looks? Not with a blindfold
Speaks? Not with a ballgag. Or denied to
Control? Hahaha not on your life or the game is over
Spandex? Agreed. No spandex
Lol NarcAngel. You sound like a subject matter expert on this topic. Please enlighten us 😉
How will the dom dominate Mr. Tudor?
LOVE
Well I dont have a S.M.E certificate……but as HG offered-there is a use. If you think about what theatrics are involved you can see they get lots of reaction, and as well, some will be partaking in activities they might not want to admit to and the Dom takes the blame. They get to be the victim they so often portray (again-temporarily). The Dom gets the satisfaction of being in control (albeit limited). It can be dangerous though as both people have to be trusting of each other to stay in control. Hard enough in a regular interaction much less this dynamic.
Hey NA,
A ballgag is definitely on the NO list for me.
I would gladly wear black patent latex spandex though. Lol
LOVE
Its a very interesting dynamic. Sometimes the only wrestling is keeping it under control (for both).
SNOW
Yes, do tell us what you saw.
Do you know the one trait that is shared in common? At least for women, is that they are usually on the extroverted side. They have confidence, are educated, function well at their jobs, have their support system in place with family and friends, etc. So part of the magnetism upon meeting someone like you who oozes confidence and charisma is filling that excitement seeking impulse for us and also providing false security or protection through your dominance. All other traits are opposite, but that one draws us in like a magnet to each other.
I would guess all of your past IP’s were successful. Alex was a gymnast. Hannah is an actress. Go through your list, I bet the majority were all pretty secure in their professional life.
Interesting point Clarece but if you want me to go through the list, well, there just isnt the time!
Did the dominatrix become your IP?
Which dominatrix is this?
How many doms were there? 😁 The one you found on Social Me.
And how does a dominatrix get added to your coterie? I don’t see them as very empathic women. Otherwise, they’d apologize before and after each hit and ask you over and over if you are doing ok. Then they’d cry about it all… Drowning in a pool of guilt for hurting you.
An empathic dominatrix, I suppose it might happen, just as you describe. Naturally one would not be a primary source, but they have their uses as secondary sources.
Fiiinnneee!
Lol
I’m just saying your ratio for wallflowers is probably less than more extroverted types.
Then I am safe…*breathes a sigh of relief.* I’m as introverted as one can be. Thanks Clarece!
I know right?! I’m actually a mixed bag for a Narc because over the years due to my jobs, I’ve really had to come out of my shell for marketing / sales type positions and I do it very well. But growing up I was THE painfully shy wallflower and she still resides in me.
Thanks Mr. Tudor. Now I’m pondering what uses a dom has as secondary source.
They still provide fuel and their desire to try to have you submit also generates fuel.
Ah, like a wrestling match.
Hi Love and HG,
I was getting a visual from these comments but it wasn’t a wrestling match. Lol
Oooh tell us Snow. What did you see?
Hello Love, NA, and HG,
Well I picture HG as the main character in his asylum of the grotesque with very dark shades of black and red. His narc flag waving above his entrance. Lots of spandex, leather, and tools from the evil toolkit.
He has a line up of doms waiting. They are coming to make him surrender but of course nothing is like it seems and HG takes each on every one and conquers their body, mind, and soul with just one look from his beautiful eyes and then when he speaks it’s all over.
He has total control of them all.
No spandex SW.
A well fitting suit for you HG.
What’s your choice?
Do you have a favorite color tie that you wear?
Naturally the one you bought me.
In other words, just another Friday night at Tudor Manor. Lol
Exactly Clarece!!! Lol
Imagine all the stories he could write!
I’m waiting for the third book in his trilogy to come out.
Snow, I love the visual. Though I cannot see any Dom waiting. I see them coming at him from every corner. Matrix style.
You are right Love!
An all out attack, lol
Two Devils don’t make an angel. Two angels don’t make a devil. One angel and one devil make a Sado-Masochistic relationship. Even better if you both switch roles as to who is the angel or devil on a routine basis. Makes for fuel spraying everywhere.
*Streisand singing Memories*
Back to my land of normalcy. Ho hum.
Now you got me singing too
🎶”Memories may be beautiful and yet
What’s too painful to remember we simply choose to forget
So it’s the laughter we will remember
Whenever we remember the way we were.” 🎶
And can I just say, woooow Robert Redford was such a hottie!?! 😍
He still has allure. Us blue-eyed blondies age well.
I prefer dark eyes and dark hair on a man. But if the eyes are blue, brown hair makes them sparkle more imo. So you have blue eyes and blonde hair? Good to know. But for anonymity purposes, i think you are lying.
Good to know Mr. Tudor. I’ve never dated a blonde blue eyed man before.
You like your behavior to be opposing/contrasting, for fuel. We like peace and calm.
Part of the same coin., so not as opposite as you believe. Heads or tails, it all spends. If this were a coin toss and while in the air, heads were narcissists and tails were CoD or Empaaths, the metaphorical call could have been called and the landing could have gone the other way. This isn’t meant to criticize even if it may sound harsh.
These images will haunt me the rest of my life.
I was asked about my tattoo today and I can’t bring myself to explain it. I’m going to have to come up with a story.
We couldn’t have been more opposite.
What is your tatoo snow White?
Hi Alexis,
My ex and I got best friend tattoos and she was fascinated with the devil and angel symbols. She always called herself the devil and said I was the angel.
( should have listened to her devil
comment)
It’s a heart intertwined with angel wings on one side and devil wings on the other and horns and halos on the top. It’s on my hip so you can only see it when I’m in a bikini thank goodness. My relatives asked about it when we were at the pool and I didn’t want to talk about it especially since my husband was right there and he hates it!
My family has started to ask why my friend isn’t around anymore and that’s been hard. They had no idea what the relationship turned into.
Goodness snow White. That must be tough with a constant reminder. Have you ever thought of getting it covered up?
How long has your relationship been ended?
Hi Alexis,
I do like it. I had always wanted one and did spend a lot of time thinking about the placement and the exact design.
What bothered me more was that she had one for me and within weeks after I left she had it covered up with a new design and it was all documented on social media.
I’m sure she didn’t want to be reminded of my treachery.
Mine will remind me that nobody is perfect. We all have both sides in us. Lol
I left her last April and NC since last May.
That’s great you’ve done well keeping up the NC snow White. I’m glad you like the tatoo. Harsh what she did, covering hers up.
Thanks Alexis,
I never thought I would make it this far.
It’s a harsh lesson when you learn that life still continues on.