As you know, there are four cadres of narcissist – Somatic, Cerebral, Victim and Elite. Which of those have you engaged with in the context of a romantic, familial, social, work or any other kind of dynamic? You may have engaged with more than one ; if so, choose the cadre which applies to the cadre which you engaged with the most.
Remember – this is not the school (those are Lesser, Mid-Range and Greater). If you need to know more about the relevant cadres you can learn more in the book Sitting Target
Do you have any thoughts on which cadre is likely to be the one that has been engaged with the most? If so, let me know and why do you think that might be, I would welcome your observations.