The Narcissistic Truths – No. 118

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16 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 118”

  1. My ex MMRN has yearly x-mas eve (pity) parties and I noticed he and several other family member were missing, so I went looking for him and found all the dimwits in an upstairs bedroom. His (narc) sister was crying and surrounded by Matrinarc, CoD husband, and my ex. I said to my ex, “There is no food out and your friends from work are looking for you.” We went into the hallway to talk, and I said, “It is getting late, people are drinking, there’s nothing to eat and you are up here ignoring all your guests, fuck your sister and get downstairs, because you are being rude. And you put your (narc) niece in charge of food, when you know she is a time-retard, brilliant!” He came down about 10 minutes later. The food was finally done and out between 9:30-10:00 pm. Some guests had been there since 7:30. Merry Narcissistic Christmas everyone!

  2. and thats how they ensnare the IPSS, and IPPS candidates…. the “poor me” and how wrong they’ve been done… and these other women always fall for it….

    1. Isn’t that the truth! I work in a very male dominated industry and We Would have to go on a lot of out of town business trips. It never failed, we’d be out to dinner and the usually to a bar afterwards and at least one or two of them would tell me how his wife wouldn’t have sex with him anymore. How she was fridged etc. 🙄 Oh please. Some were really good at the performance so they must have used it many a time and it worked..
      I still think there’s a secret school that these guys go to because the all use the same exact tactics 😜

      1. Hello Sues423
        I missed your comment on LITTLE ACONS – NO. 39, I am sorry and I would like to respond. I was completely baffled by my mother’s malign glee regarding my sister’s heroin addiction and overdoses, so in order to survive, I learned to let go and I spent as much time outside with my friends as I could. It was a rough childhood completely absent of love. When I turned 19, I moved out. Please, feel free to ask any questions, any time. Sharing our experiences is very helpful. Thank you!

      2. Sue, “I still think there’s a secret school that these guys go to because the all use the same exact tactics.”
        Omg!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

      3. Ah yes, they definitely do! It worked with me as I did feel so sorry for my narc. No sex?! You poor thing. He made me feel as though I had saved him and he was whole after he met me.

        I can’t figure this one out, but then again my brain is still not functioning. The narcs I know
        obviously do imply that they are to be pitied (it’s everyone else’s fault) but they don’t play on it and don’t ask for pity. They always have an air of superiority when regurgitating tales of their misfortunes, they often brag about how they are the victors in the end and how they crushed their offenders.

  3. This one i seen played out a few hours ago. My hubby and i went out for a few hours to have a bday lunch at a historic house converted into a restaurant. We had a lovely time. We get home and my mother in law who wanted to watch the kids for us breaks down in tears to hubby when theyre alone complaining and crying about all her problems which were not problems at all. We always thank her for helping us and pay her yet she needs constant praise and the focus needs to be on her. When i mentioned the meal she scoffed at how much it must of cost and you get barely any food.
    The tears were a pity party bc we did something special and it wasnt centered around her. She uses her son as a dumping ground and to draw pity and fuel from. When he doesnt comply she lashes out at him with horrible insults. Total midranger trait the pity parties. Dont send me an invite bc i wont go there.

    1. Narcaffair, ur mil sounds as pitiful as my ex! 😅
      He made a mistake at work, so he told me he’s losing his job. I think he actually believed it frm his perspective.
      After i told him i suffer frm panic attacks, he reversed the situation a few months later, and told me he suffers frm panic attacks when i argue w him. Really, a narc getting panic attacks?!
      He told me he can’t look anyone in the eye anymore due to my revealing our relationship to some pple. He said this is causing him major depression and he wanted to kill himself. I became so worried abt him, so i fuelled him until he got out of his depression, providing sympathy, praise, etc.
      He is no longer depressed but he will never admit i helped him. He says he trained his mind to get out of the depression. Ya right! He has a new remote tertiary source on instagram. They talk daily.

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