Defend Yourself


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By understanding how we act and think, you build your cool, hard logic. This is a completely necessary act of self-help to bring your emotional thinking under control and in turn, maximise your ability to secure freedom from the narcissist.

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4 thoughts on “Defend Yourself

  1. Jane hall says:


    Those were the words that went through my mind as I fought my way out. Out of a prison I had been held in for 30 years – because of my emotional thinking and the narcs manipulation. But HG – encouraged me to STOP thinking emotionally and instead use the cool, hard, logic.
    When I escaped – those words were my mantra as I ignored my emotional side.

  2. JustEmpath says:


    let’s assume that narcissist discarded his partner and hurt her deeply but after a while he starts some friendly hoovers. How would he react if the victim instead of shouting “go to hell, I don’t want to see you anymore you monster!” told him kindly “you are a great guy, I wish you all the best, but I don’t feel it anymore and you should move on. I am sure you will find someome for you.” and then went no contact? I imagine no contact would wound but I’d like to know if the “I don’t see you as a man anymore but also I don’t hate you, what is more I think you are a nice person” part would increase his frustriation?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It would be Challenge Fuel and therefore the response would be one of asserting superiority.

  3. Omj says:

    Great ! Exactly what I need !

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