Poll : “Dick Pics” – Your Experience




The advent of sending pictures by mobile telephone and then social media resulted in a proliferation of one particular phenomenon, the “dick pic”. Whether it is an in your face, up close and throbbing , picture of an erect male member or a more relaxed pose demonstrating this fellow is a shower and may also be a grower, there is evidence of the sending of such pictures all over the internet.

And it is not just the men.

There are plenty of women who have sent pictures of themselves naked, either with a hand cupped coquettishly over themselves providing a sneak of what lies underneath, a confident pose in front of a mirror, a shot from behind with skirt hitched up or a no holds barred legs apart shot.

The sending of such pictures and the behaviour of the recipient provide interesting insights into the dynamic of narcissist and victim.

This poll is seeking information about your own experiences and will be the basis of a future article concerning this behaviour within the narcissistic dynamic.

Please see the options below and you may answer as many as are applicable.

Do expand with your observations in the comments section.

Thank you for participating.

Your Experience Concerning "Dick Pics"

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1,051 thoughts on “Poll : “Dick Pics” – Your Experience

  1. alexissmith2016 says:

    I’m sure you’ll be bombarded with emails of penis pictures now hahah

    1. HG Tudor says:

      There had better not be anybody getting cocky and start dicking about in that manner, it will not give me the willies and will just make me think the sender is a bellend.

      1. alexissmith2016 says:

        hahhahahah top answer!

  2. Lorelei says:

    I laughed out loud about no penis picture from a woman.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I am here to inform and entertain.

      1. Lorelei says:

        Thanks. I’ve made it this long with no nudes. I’m not taking a picture of my penis and sending it at this point.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I thank my own personal god for that.

        2. Violetta says:


          As I said to my idiot shrink when I was 9, “Why would I have penis envy? When I’m 18, I can always borrow somebody else’s.”

          1. Lorelei says:

            Haha—I was asked for a “breast photo” just once—he did not attempt to persuade and I could only think.. “Why in the hell would you want this on your camera roll!?” Men are so idiotic. It’s bad enough to see the sag in the sack! And he wanted a memory of it! Dumb. I’ll never do it unless it’s semi nude and classy.

          2. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Well I did, Lorelei. And while I wish I hadn’t, I’m not gonna torture myself for that again. Paraphrasing NA, some time in the future I will feel proud of my once-upon-a-time perky tits being immortalized.

          3. Lorelei says:

            Haha—I’m in Kroger now. They have no eggs. What the F happened to all the chickens? This is bullshit. I want an omelet.

          4. NarcAngel says:

            There you go! No one died and I bet they were beautiful. Just because yours are not hanging in a museum doesn’t mean they’re not works of art.

            Mine should be in a museum – they’re old enough. Well… they ARE hanging.…

          5. Lorelei says:

            I look like a national geo tribal woman!

          6. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Hahaha NA! Yes, they definitely should be in a museum, in the section dedicated to Minimalism! I bet I would be a pirate in HG’s category. My UL said they are perfect tits. Proportions are subjected to canons and are variable. I love how we switched from dicks to focus on us. Enough dick talk! Give me the boobs!

          7. Lorelei says:

            Sweetest—I bet your breasts are fabulous!

          8. Violetta says:

            Lorelei, I know you expressed a preference for total nudity, but I really want to put in a word for long black stockings. The thick, Victorian kind, not sheers.

          9. HG Tudor says:

            I like those too. Over a person’s head.

    2. MB says:

      I laughed at the penis comment too Lorelei. I’m triggered that I can’t like except on the app. I hope these “loading” stars will finally load soon!

      1. Lorelei says:

        Same—I can only like via the app. I decided to take my first nude. HG is vomiting in his lunch about right now.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Lunch is for wimps.

          1. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Gordon Gekko.

  3. Kate says:


    It would be interesting in you answered your poll, too.

    How many women have received these from you?

    How many women have sent these to you?

    I am confused by how you are able to have all of these people in your life and carry on sexual relationships with more than one person. It sounds exhausting! I only like to be with one man at a time, and don’t understand behavior than is different than mine. What is the end goal for you with all of these relationships?

    I hope that you don’t mind my questions. I am trying to understand. Thank you!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      1. None. I have never sent them. I have answered this previously.

      2. I have never received a picture of a penis from a woman. If you mean how many women have sent me nudes, I have lost count and most were unsolicited.

      3. Read Sex – it will help your understanding.

    2. K says:

      I found these comments very helpful.

      HG Tudor
      JUNE 15, 2017 AT 17:00
      No I do not send dick pics, that is the act of an epsilon semi-moron.

      HG Tudor
      JUNE 16, 2017 AT 09:12
      1. I have sent pictures, but never dick pictures.
      2. A narcissist naturally.


      HG Tudor says:
      October 9, 2019 at 12:05
      No. To do so would mean that the narcissist knows what he is and the vast majority do not. The narcissist believes the mask is him or her, because the narcissist has him believe that. Fuel is required to maintain the construct but the narcissist does not think of it in such terms, nor does the narcissist perceive it as exhausting to do it.


  4. Kate says:

    I like getting these.

    Is that weird?

  5. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dear Zielum,
    I agree with the lovely K
    Will look toward to hearing from you ☺️
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  6. Kate says:

    One more thought – I felt that it was nice of them not to waste my time meeting them by letting me know what they had to offer…

  7. K says:

    I enjoyed your posts and I hope you continue to contribute.

  8. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dear SweetPea,
    I agree with you …. thankyou
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  9. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dearest Zielum,
    Seriously, I’ve been here over 3 years (I know right) ….people come n go
    Can I just say, you’ve already been welcomed !
    I personally would luv more from you as I think you have much to offer
    You resonated with me somehow and I felt connected !
    I’d luv to hear more from you ….of course it’s up to you !
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

    1. Zielum says:

      Bubbles, Sweetest Perfection, and K,

      Well damn, I’m feeling the love!

      I’m still here lol. Lurking. I have to take breaks sometimes; as you guys know, I tend to write novels for comments. Sometimes I have to step back and digest and contemplate. I’ve been following most of the conversation thread on this post. I have some thoughts and questions for HG and everyone, but I figure they may be more relevant on another post, so I havta look for one that fits.

      Also…I’m hopeless at regular conversation. And empathic communication, I suppose–there’s a lot of glitter and mushiness on here that is beyond me lol. I figure it’ll be best to chime in where I have something useful to add, otherwise I’ll just mess up the flow.

      I’m happy to hear my contributions were welcomed and well-received; it’s encouraging. Thank you.

      1. K says:

        My pleasure Zielum
        Hahahaha…there’s a lot of love here and I am happy that you are feeling it! Lurk to your heart’s content. It’s good to take a step back and think. You will know exactly when and where to post when you are ready to comment again.

      2. FYC says:


        Your communication is fine as is and I would suggest you not self edit or feel a need to “fit in.” I believe your reference to “a lot of glitter and mushiness” is misplaced. It is neither a lot, nor mushy. If you know anything about MB from what she has shared here, she loves glitter. Nothing wrong with that. She is also pretty hard on herself. I care about her experience. So when she thought I was offended, I know how that would make her feel. Not only was I never offended, I would never want sweet MB to feel badly due to any miscommunication. Therefore, since she and I have spoken on many occasions, my shorthand to her to let her know I care was to reference what she cares about. That’s all.

        Commenters here have many different communication styles and display a variety of emotions. That is to be expected. As long as we do not rush to judgement, we all do pretty well. Your comments are welcome. Just ignore those that annoy you. As to relevancy, your comments need not be precisely relevant to the post (as evidenced by many comments that are not). Just keep posting and I guarantee you will feel very comfortable.

        1. Zielum says:


          I absolutely didn’t mean to offend, and I’m sorry if I might’ve. I only skim the thread messages; I kept seeing “glitter” and I assumed it was a general term on here for well-wishes and well-being. I didn’t realize it was of such a personal nature. I’ll refrain from using it in the future.

          As far as level of “mushiness” (I was originally going to say “gushiness”, as in emotional gushing), I’ll try to explain….In real life, I have flat affect. Aside from irritability/anger, sometimes sadness/nausea, my emotions don’t go up and down otherwise. My face doesn’t show much either way. I have to make a concerted effort to mimic the right positive emotions as well as remember social niceties. It’s easier writing it because I have time to slow it down, and I don’t also have to make my face mirror the appropriate emotion. It still takes effort though. On here, though it may be natural for you guys, all the niceties can be exhausting for me, even just reading it. I’m not empathic myself and I’m not generally around empathic people. But as they say: when in Rome, do like the Romans. So I’m able to comment when I have the energy but I just need the breaks every so often. I did not in any way mean it to be offensive against anyone; rather, it was a reference to my own shortcomings.

          1. FYC says:

            Zielum, Thank you, but I was not offended; I was explaining what you read. I would not call glitter so personal, just shorthand in that usage. Thank you for expanding on why you feel as you do. In that case, I would encourage you to comment whenever you feel like it. We all learn from different perspectives. Emotion can be exhausting for anyone, even an empath.

  10. Kate says:


    I can’t wait to hear what more you will have to say on this subject!

    When I re-entered the dating scene in 2014 and had the mistaken impression that online dating was a good way to meet a quality man, I was completely unaware of what people were doing. I did not understand that instead of being somehow flattered, instead those pictures should have been a BIG red flag!!!

    I guess they weren’t big enough..

  11. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dear zielum,
    I mean it …. you have so much to contribute from your perspective
    Sharing, is learning and empowering
    I hope you’re doing ok
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

    1. Zielum says:


      Lol, thanks. I’m doing well.
      I indeed have a lot to contribute, it’s just a matter of placing it where it’ll be best received and minded.

      1. Sweetest Perfection says:

        Zielum, please come back. I miss your contribution.

  12. Violetta says:

    Witch: Seems like poor marketing if nothing else, but then people go on Steve Wilkos to get yelled at.

  13. Violetta says:

    “I am proud of you too.”


  14. Violetta says:

    If it includes Twilight and 50 Shades, I am proud to say I wasn’t able to finish either. I tried, because many of my students were Twihards, and I wanted to understand the cultural moment, but I just couldn’t.

    Twilight was whiny, and when you find yourself skimming through the sex scenes to see if there’s going to be a plot afterwards, you know EL James is a crap writer.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I am proud of you too.

  15. emx says:

    After her first return my Narc sent me pics of her body… and unfortunately not just of her… (new man).
    About the poll: I did it with my d0ng… but in anonymous ways. Years ago. I was looking for for new emotions.

    1. Claire says:

      Hi emx, may I ask you what kind of emotions from your own male perspective you were seeking when you sent a photo of your genitals ? I am really curious why normal guys are sending dick pics? What is the motivation? A self esteem boost, looking for a validation, being proud of that particular body part , hoping to get laid or something else ?
      I really wonder why one needs to flash their private parts online unless the receiver requested such a photo? To impress , to provoke a reaction ( shock, disturbance, anger) or it is merely driven by one’s exhibitionistic traits or disorder ?

      1. emx says:

        Hello Claire,
        In my opinion it depends from various factors. We especially need to consider The Porn industry propagation (social implications) and the power of tech. Today many people today share genit pics using tools as strangerbot [Telegram] for example. In my case, I was “young and ALONE”. I remember the desire to “be seen”, to be “like the other guys”. VERY LOW Self-Esteem. Probably I was an Inverted Somatic Narcissist (co-dependent N) at that time. Some persons uses social media to compensate this kind of sensations… but social media increase -biologically speaking- this bad feelings. Today, I consider this experience just as a idiot action of my 20s 😉

        1. Claire says:

          Than you very much for the prompt reply, emx:). I really appreciate it because it is very honest and very well stated.
          When I was a child and in my teen years
          I had not so fortunate experiences when few men flashed out their genitals – in separate occasions, different guys . I was not shocked but disgusted. In one of the occasions I was a bit scarred as the guy started to follow me up and making indecent offers – on my way to school, a walking distance from our house in a nice suburb.
          To be honest the online exhibitionism is less harmful – at least you don’t face the sender of the unsolicited photo .
          So thanks again for your reply.

          I think we all have done silly things in our 20s🙂.

  16. Desirée says:

    Why do you think that Milo Yiannopoulos is a narcissist?

  17. Dorion says:

    Other than TS Eliot’s Wasteland, here’s this:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPXUeeFXc90

  18. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    All those who have attempted so far, have failed !
    The original film version is the best currently
    I would very much luv to hear your narration, so as you can claim top accolades
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you Bubbles.

  19. Apricot Showers says:

    Hilarious! One time this dude sent me a pic of his dick and it looked like he had herpes on it. I was in a meeting at work and almost choked.

    I’ve called friends on FaceTime naked once! Haha! We rented a private villa in Bali for our honeymoon and we skinny dipped! I called my friends naked in the pool!! Does that count? Hahahahhaha

  20. Dorion says:

    SP – my testicle eating was of goats and roosters. If I recall correctly, the goat was deep fried and the rooster was some kind if stew. Not bad memories. As far as the topic of balls being repulsive, I believe our host was the instigator!

    Re: poetry – I personally like dark and it fits HG’s voice and style in my mind (and maybe legs, but I don’t care much about those). In my fantasy, the first association to poetry and HG that pops up is TS Eliot. If that ever happens, and if he will be selling it instead of free sourcing, I might (for a moment) reconsider my current boundaries about only consuming free stuff or Amazon books… Maybe.

  21. zielum says:

    Bubbles et al,

    The current going rate in my area for a half-hour “quick visit”, which is generally full quickie sex, is about $75. This is regarding escorts, where we charge for our time, not each favor. I don’t have any experience streetwalking but I’m going to assume a simple handjob would be much cheaper–20, 30 bucks? That’s like, the easiest, lowest-tier thing you could do (Although personally, I much prefer blowjobs. They’re fun.) The STI transmission risk is also much lower, if you don’t generally use protection (I do; if I’m touching it, it’s covered).

    1. Bubbles 🍾 says:

      Dear zielum,
      Thank you so much for your comment, most enlightening and appreciated …… see we need you here !
      Luv Bubbles xx 😘

      1. zielum says:


        Aw, thank you <3

  22. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dear njfilly,
    Good grief, $200 😱
    Cheaper to use Mrs Palm and her 5 daughters🖐🤣
    Gin is huge at the moment …our kids bought Ryan Reynolds Aviation Gin and the Prohibition Christmas Gin (absolutely stunning, incredible flavours and I’m not a gin drinker)
    I mainly use vodka in gluhwein !
    I’d say there’s a bit of psycho in all of us …. haha
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  23. Lorelei says:

    What photos are you referring to HG?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      All photos that I display on here or more usually Instagram, Lorelei.

      1. Lorelei says:

        All of my photos are also real. Who would have thought?!

        1. zielum says:


          You’re as generously tolerant of dissenters as others are naive to their intentions. Your self-restraint and patience are commendable.

          1. HG Tudor says:

            Thank you Zielum.

            It appears as tolerance, but is actually based on superiority and evidence. That aids with the self-restraint. I save the worst of me for those that actually matter.

            I do however appreciate your comment.

          2. FYC says:

            “It appears as tolerance, but is actually based on superiority and evidence. That aids with the self-restraint. I save the worst of me for those that actually matter.”

            This was a very informative comment, HG. Thank you. I would assume that extends to those that effect those that matter to you as well, such as with Lesley in reference to Lennox, correct? It was not Lesley that mattered it was Lennox.

          3. HG Tudor says:


          4. FYC says:

            Thank you for the confirmation, HG.

          5. HG Tudor says:

            Although Lesley in herself mattered more than a tertiary source wannabe agitator.

          6. FYC says:

            “Although Lesley in herself mattered more than a tertiary source wannabe agitator.”

            Yes, HG, this makes perfect sense. Besides, you could swat those wannabe agitators away like flies, and do so quite effectively, and humorously here on the blog. I remember you saying to the visiting MRN commenter who whined they were devalued by you and you replied, “You would have to matter to be devalued.”

            I think the amount of energy we expend on others always relates to how much we care (Es)/they matter(Ns). We consider the source and respond appropriately to the degree to which their words/actions matter.

            Please do correct me if I am wrong on that last bit.

          7. Zielum says:

            I see…There is still so much to learn from you, HG.

            Thank you for the clarification.

            And it doesn’t hurt that her opinion is drowned out by the sea of admiration surrounding you; you’re untouchable, inside and out.

          8. HG Tudor says:

            I am obliged.

          9. MB says:

            I took “those that matter” to mean those that are higher up in the fuel matrix.

          10. FYC says:

            That is an interesting observation, MB. I had not considered the fuel matrix. I have a feeling it would extend to anyone that would matter to HG at any given time. Of course this would naturally be loaded on the top end of the fuel matrix.

          11. MB says:

            FYC, Fuel, character traits, and residual benefits are what “matter” to a narcissist. Those that fulfill the Prime Aims in the most potent ways and in the greatest quantities matter more than those that do not. HG wouldn’t waste the time or energy to be “the worst of himself” for the minimal use that a tertiary source is to him. The exception to this, if you will, is the case where HG has stated that he “protects his assets”. (His assets still being those that fulfill the Prime Aims in the most appropriate ways, so even that statement is one and the same.)

            Our definition of someone mattering to us is very different to someone that matters to a narcissist. I had to think this one through in order not to get starry-eyed at the thought of somebody mattering to HG.

          12. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Very well spoken, MB. Needless to say, I am very relieved I don’t matter to HG. HG, I admire you but also fear you. I know you understand because you’re wise and objective.

          13. MB says:

            Thank you SP. I’ve had a good teacher. You matter to HG. As tertiary sources, we all do. We have our place in the fuel matrix fulfilling Prime Aims if only an itty bitty part. And you’re right, we are lucky we will never see the worst of him due to this fact.

            Oh, and you matter to me in the Empath sense of the word. Just sayin. 😊

          14. Sweetest Perfection says:

            You matter to me too because I love you. I wish I could say I love HG, but I learned well from him to know you can never say you love a narc!!! Danger danger!!!

          15. MB says:

            Awww 🥰

          16. FYC says:

            That last part made me smile, MB. I am not unclear whatsoever on what matters to a N and agree with HG’s model in full. Remember, I have observed Ns since birth (familial, social, work, romantic, and strangers). Perhaps I threw you with the word ‘matters’? I have never mattered to any N in terms of love, friendship, caring, etc., since they clearly cannot. I have mattered in terms of what I provide (fuel, and character traits and ample residual benefits). On the tertiary level, what could “matter” still includes the prime aims, just to a far lesser degree in terms of usefulness. One of the best things about HG’s body of work is that it leaves no ambiguity. Trust me I am clear on what matters on both sides of the equation, but I thank you for caring. It was very kind of you.

          17. MB says:

            FYC, I’m sorry I insulted you. It was not my intention.

          18. FYC says:

            MB, I did not take insult from anything you said at all! I appreciate everything you wrote. I used a word that was misunderstood in the context of the subject, and you cared enough to be sure I did understand. There is nothing wrong with that and no offense was made or taken. I apologize for causing any confusion my comment caused and will ensure I am more sensitive to my word choice in the future. Sending you a bonus pack of glitter and a hug for your caring.

          19. MB says:

            FYC, I’ll take all the hugs and glitter I can get!

          20. FYC says:

            MB, Consider yourself the recipient of an infinite supply of both.

  24. Witch says:

    I’ve never tried to speak to Sam Vaknin so I didn’t know that he was rude to everyone, I guess his creature hits differently

  25. Sweetest Perfection says:

    Correction: I’m not being fair. I made a request for poetry and he did send a bunch of recited poems, months later but he did. I apologize for my incorrect statement. And my impatience.

  26. Violetta says:


    This is a narcy as poetry gets:


    And if I loved you Wednesday,

    Well, what is that to you?

    I do not love you Thursday—

    So much is true.

    And why you come complaining

    Is more than I can see.

    I loved you Wednesday,—yes—but what

    Is that to me?

    Edna St. Vincent Millay

  27. njfilly says:

    I would love to hear this if you read it.

  28. njfilly says:

    Bubbles: Must be about $200 for a hand job today then. The ‘research’ article you reference does describe me, actually. Although I prefer vodka tonics.

  29. Violetta says:

    Sweet P: She probably means prairie oysters. I think I’ll stick to the ocean kind.

  30. Violetta says:

    Alexis: No foreplay, no home run. What the hell?!! Don’t people make out anymore?

  31. Violetta says:

    NarcAngel: I might need my inhaler. I tend to wheeze around dust

  32. Violetta says:

    MB: “The superior voice goes without saying. There’s no voice I enjoy more.”

    Then pile on the campaign wagon to get HG to record “Eve of St. Agnes” before her feast day (Jan 21.). As I build my HG library, I bought “Grinch” ahead of some of the informative material, and I’m not a bit sorry.

    One of the reasons English programs at so many institutions suck is the neglect of the oral tradition (okay, the jokes write themselves). Chaucer, Shakespeare, even Dickens were meant to be read aloud, and don’t really make full sense unless they are. Rhythm, scansion, and alliteration tell you a lot. One of Wilfred Owen’s poems had only partial significance, even for me, until I had my students read it aloud and realized that every line ended in half-rhymes, and the last cut off in the middle.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Dulce et Decorum Est read by me is a wonder to have in your ears

      1. Violetta says:

        The one I was thinking of is “Strange Meeting,” where the form of the poem equals the function–imperfect understanding of each other until both lives are cut short–but your choice is always welcome in my ears, HG.

        1. Sweetest Perfection says:

          Violetta, I love meta poetry but I prefer “The Husband’s Message” (pretty innovative for the time period) or any avant-garde calligram. I wouldn’t dare make a request to HG, I did it once and nothing happened. I’m also waiting for part II of Alastor and of the SM vs. Dr. O (wow! I just noticed it sounds like a Bond movie!). He does what he wants when he wants. I learned that. But if you get your wish granted, I’ll be happy for you!

          1. Violetta says:

            Why not ask? The worst that can happen is he’ll say no or ignore it.

            (Unless you want him to cover a Celine Dion song. Or read a paen in praise of Man U. And then you know you’re asking for it.)

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Someone has been paying attention.

      2. FYC says:

        “Dulce et Decorum Est”

        Pretty grim topic though, HG. I would think readers would prefer something more golden period like “If you but knew” A narc poem if I ever heard one, and once given to me long ago by a UMRN. As for me, I prefer your recording of “Here comes the rain again”. That said, you could read a phone book (if they still exist) and it would sound magnificent.

        1. Sweetest Perfection says:

          FYC, anything HG reads sounds dark to me. Now that you mention golden period, I’m curious about why it is Friday and there’s no photographic evidence of HG and SM’s dining adventures… I miss indulging in those…

          1. FYC says:

            Hi SP, I hope all is well with you. I hear more in HG’s voice than only dark, but I can appreciate your take due to synesthesia. I have not checked his IG in several days, I’ll have to catch up. As for their meals, they look fabulous. Perhaps there will be an HG’s guide to travel and fine dining one day. I’d buy it.

  33. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dear njfilly,
    A police officer friend of ours informed us 40 years ago, a hand job going rate was $75
    He also mentioned the kinkiest suburbs weren’t the low socio economic ones but the more elite rich suburbs comprising of professionals ie barristers, lawyers, doctors, surgeons, professors, university lecturers bankers etc ….. not surprising haha
    I read a “research” article yesterday saying if you prefer gin n tonic, drink black coffee and lean toward sour bitter tastes, you’re most likely to be a psychopath. Haha
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

    1. Lorelei says:

      How long does a $75 hand job take? That isn’t bad if they line up and take 5 minutes per job.

  34. Sweetest Perfection says:

    Hahaha good pun, Violetta.

  35. Violetta says:

    FYC: Don’t care so much about the visuals (HG could be pulling a Cyrano on all of us, for all we know), but Vaknin’s reputation for habitual rudeness is a deal-breaker. Many people who look for information on Narcissism have raw wounds to their self-esteem, and they can’t heal if rudeness keeps reopening them. They can’t ask questions if they are afraid of being blasted.

    1. FYC says:

      Violetta, the Ns I have known (very many) all love their own form, no matter what their appearance is–I would suggest this is part and parcel with narcissism–if it theirs it is awesome (in their eyes). I cannot imagine HG using fake photos, since in all his comments he takes pride in his appearance. I would also bet a part of him wants to reveal himself, but he is too intelligent to do so. Clearly I am not here due to HG’s physical appearance. And while I am impressed by HG on many levels, I have no crush. It is all about the education, giving back and spreading the word to prevent further abuse. As for Sam V, he is a total loss from my perspective. Vaknin’s habit of being arrogant, rude, shaming/blaming victims, along with his other repulsive qualities is not a good combo for anyone and the last thing any victim needs.

      1. HG Tudor says:

        All the photographs are mine.

        1. FYC says:

          “All the photographs are mine.”

          HG I never had any doubt about that, nor did I ever think your voice is not your own. I attribute the doubters to emapth caution post abuse.

      2. Violetta says:

        FYC: I’ll admit I’m a sucker for the voice. HG could look like the Phantom of the farking Opera, and I wouldn’t care if that voice was coming out of the satin mask. I developed serious girl crushes when I saw Julie Newmar’s Catwoman and Diana Rigg’s Mrs. Peel in reruns. Yes, they both looked well in black leather, but it was the voices that did it.

        1. FYC says:

          HG has an amazing voice and I am very curious to hear him sing. Perhaps next Christmas?!

          1. MB says:

            Perhaps in one of the Knowing HG installments!

          2. FYC says:

            Anytime is a good time, MB!! Of course one song, like one audio, will never be enough.

  36. Dorion says:

    NA and SP,

    Okay. Sometimes it creates an interesting and amusing random order though and new interpretations.

    On testicles: I enjoyed eating some cooked in the past but no idea if taste correlates with aesthetic value as I didn’t extract them or saw the rest of the source.

    1. Sweetest Perfection says:

      Dorion! Please, specify the species least I think of impending cannibalism going on in the blog!

    2. Lorelei says:

      Why does no man send just testicular photos?

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Presumably because he does not have the balls to do so.

        1. Lorelei says:

          Nice! “Not have the balls!”

          1. MB says:

            I’ve been reflecting on our Fizzy Friday night at Narcsite discussing the virtues of HG and his testicles. How much more fan can a girl have?!?

          2. Lorelei says:

            Even better MB—ask a guy for a testicle photo and see if he obliges.

          3. MB says:

            Lorelei, there are no testicles I want to see. (Except maybe HG’s right) Since he says it will turn one to goo to look upon it. I’d like to test the theory because I’m a curious girl, but other than that, I’m all good on the balls front!

          4. Lorelei says:

            Don’t be curious. I’ve yet to see an appealing testicle. I’ve seen more than a tenured whore.

  37. Lorelei says:

    I’m sick at the current time from HG’s testicular admiration. Yuck. I think lessers love hand jobs though.

  38. janna leonard says:

    Do you think Milo Yiannopoulos has NPD?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I am not familiar with that individual, Janna.

  39. Hahaha oh my god that’s hilarious Lorelei! Us asking them for a hand job.

    I bet they wouldn’t mind as long as they made us come during golden period (unless a lesser, I presume) or withheld from us during devaluation.

    Lets have a poll

  40. FYC says:

    I question the purported degree of intelligence. I would wage HG’s IQ is higher regardless of any self reports. It is obvious when reading their theories. I would also add HG’s EQ is off the charts while V’s is non existent. I have not seen HG obviously, but his avatar legs beat any visual aspect V by a million miles.

    1. MB says:

      FYC, agree with you100% RE HG’s EQ. And what good is IQ if you can’t communicate effectively?

      1. FYC says:

        Indeed, MB!

    2. Lorelei says:

      FYC, he is quite sensitive about his legs being someone else’s. He wants us to think they are his and if we dispute this it irritates him!

      1. HG Tudor says:

        I prefer accuracy. That is the point.

        1. MB says:

          Maybe we will get a winter appropriate picture and then the sexy legs will return In time for pool season. How is your injury HG? All better now?

          1. HG Tudor says:

            Total recovery, thank you.

          2. MB says:

            I’m very glad to hear it.

  41. Lorelei says:

    What is this about testicles? I hate them. You know I caught an early torsion last night. I just knew it—##save the balls.

  42. Violetta says:

    You first.

    1. Lorelei says:

      Oops I was typing a reply and lost it. I’ dream of phone sex with Sam!

      1. Violetta says:

        “I’ dream of phone sex with Sam!”


        Is it the unibrow?

        1. NarcAngel says:

          The only thing that I can comprehend as a benefit sexually with SV is that his mouth never stops moving (and then only if you’re wearing ear plugs). Now if you’ll excuse me, I have to go gargle with Listerine.

          1. HG Tudor says:

            Ha ha very good.

          2. Lorelei says:

            Listerine! Seems I’ve heard of it’s usefulness here before..

          3. HG Tudor says:

            Well remembered.

  43. njfilly says:

    Mr. HG Tudor,

    You need to prove that theory about your left testicle.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I know. Therefore it is so.

      1. njfilly says:

        I believe you, Mr. HG Tudor. I believe you.

  44. Violetta says:

    HG: one notices you don’t make similar claims for the right one.

    Sounds sinister to me.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      That’s so beautiful you will turn into goo if you look upon it

      1. Violetta says:

        Meh. I changed so many nappies when I babysat and worked in day care that the conformation of human genitalia has little mystique for me. It’s who they’re attached to that’s important.

  45. FYC says:

    Vanknin’s hand is his only willing partner.

  46. Lorelei says:

    Sweetest—what would go on in a mans mind if we asked for hand jobs?

    1. Sweetest Perfection says:

      Lorelei, re: female habdjobs: my narc would immediately grab my boobs. He likes them so I guess the answer would be subjective. It would be completely different if you asked Trump. We know what he likes to grab.

      1. Lorelei says:

        I had a consult for fixing the breast situation but I’m almost afraid to do it. Breastfeeding for years doesn’t do anything for aesthetics. I also wonder if it’s worth the money. Men don’t care. I’ve never taken it all of and had someone say—“Oh I can’t go through with this!” In fact, it seems a non-issue!

        1. Violetta says:

          This is why properly-fitted corsets are a beautiful thing. Also push-up bras. It’s all you: just differently distributed.

          Actually, some guys will give you extra points just for wearing a corset, fitted or not, but the correctly-cut ones are more comfortable. If you decide to go that route, let me know: there’s a lot of crap out there, but reenactors know what to look for.

          1. Lorelei says:

            I just prefer being naked Violetta. Truly.

  47. Violetta says:

    Sweet P:

    Since yours didn’t post under the thread, it’s hard (refrain from the easy joke) to yyell which comment you’re liking.

    This is turning into one of those scenes where Bridget Jones’s friend with the rambunctious toddlers tries to have a phone conversation: “Bridget, I’ve just called to tell you PUT IT IN THE POTTY! IN THE POTTY! I know how you feel, but you have to remember YOU DON’T PICK IT UP! SAY ‘YACKY! YACKY!'”

    BTW, HG, do you consign Bridget to the Chick Lit pile, or does she get a pass because Fielding eviscerates all the lifestyle fables Cosmo peddles?

    In addition, she has of course read her Austen, who has clearly set out what she thinks of emotional thinking (Lydia Bennett, Marianne Dashwood) versus logical thinking (Lizzie Bennett, Eleanor Dashwood).

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Fielding was clever and she was taking the piss.

      1. Violetta says:

        So which Chick Lit tomes have been condemned by the HG Legion of Narcency?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          The Prohibited List is extensive Violetta.

    2. Sweetest Perfection says:

      Violetta, I’m liking all, internally. I hate WP, it’s mayhem. The reference to the easy joke was to my having to say like manually which is a clear hand job if I had to do it all the time.

    3. K says:

      Bridget Jones’s Diary was pretty good and the movie was very funny.

      1. Sweetest Perfection says:

        Bridgette Jone’s is hilarious. I didn’t like the other two parts that much, though… I dressed as the Playboy Bunny one year for Halloween too in reference to the movie not to the magazine. People didn’t get it.

        1. K says:

          Sweetest Perfection
          If a book makes me laugh, then it is worth the read and the rivalry between Firth and Grant was a riot and I would have gotten the reference. I didn’t see parts 2 or 3.

  48. njfilly says:


    I also saw a video about a study saying you could possibly determine a narcissist by their eyebrows although I don’t recall that it was due to bushiness.

    I hate bushy eyebrows on a man. It makes me want to take a pair of scissors and give them a trim!

  49. Witch says:

    Sam Vaknin sending dick pics!! Lmao sssttttooopoppp 😆 he would never
    I can’t even imagine him having sex

    1. HG Tudor says:

      But you’ve clearly tried

      1. Witch says:

        I tried and I saw that Sam Vaknin and his wife have separate bedrooms

  50. Dorion says:

    Well, too bad for him, probably losing some business.

    1. Dorion says:

      Why are my posts never showing up where I intend them in the past few days, when I target them exactly the same way as before? Is WordPress doing some gaslighting, or just losing its cerebral matter?! I think I’ll take a break because this seems like a dumbo who cannot even follow a conversation 🙂

      1. NarcAngel says:

        If you put the name of the person you’re responding to before your comment it can usually be figured out if it goes astray.

      2. Sweetest Perfection says:

        Dorion I know. It happens to mine as well. I hope you find this one so that you don’t feel excluded but who knows where it will show up!

      3. Violetta says:

        Dorion: WP doing it to me too. You are not getting picked on. My last theory was either revenge of the MegBots or just a tech SNAFU.

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