Many people advocate the use of Grey Rock when dealing with the narcissist. Other people use it and believe that it is effective. It is not. You must understand how and why Grey Rock is making you play into the hands of the narcissist. Stop being conned. This logic bulletin sets out in a clear […]
You may understand what the various layers of the fuel matrix are, who sits in them and how they differ according to the different sub-school of narcissist (Pipelines) but do you understand what happens when the fuel matrix changes? This Logic Bulletin addresses the following:- How does the Fuel Matrix alter and […]
We are adept at sniffing out our prey. We are able to identify those that will be of little use to us and ignoring them. We discern those who are obstructive and avoid them. We have an instinctive ability to target those who serve our purposes with the greatest effectiveness. Those who will […]
“I’m going to fucking kill you!” “You’d better do it or you’re dead!” “I wish you were dead!” “You are going to die.” You may well have heard such threats and declarations of intent from our kind. The savage Lesser who has erupted in a volcanic reaction of ignited fury who grabs the kitchen knife […]
Narcissists abhor intimacy. Why is that? It is an instinctive and necessary response. Intimacy creates attachment. As I have explained in Attachment Is The Seat Of Misery we attach our victims to us, but we do not attach to you. If we became attached to our victims we would not thrive and survive because our […]