Why Does the Narcissist Blow Hot and Cold (Part 1)

  “I don’t get it, one minute he is all smiles and cuddles and the next he acts like he doesn’t know me.” “I don’t know what is going on. Earlier in the week he wanted to hang out with me and now when I call to make arrangements he doesn’t seemed bothered.” “He was […]

The Perfect Ten of Seduction

    The Perfect Ten Sentences of Seduction What is really meant when we say these words. 1. I love you and I always have My need to seduce you is considerable and therefore I will use language which will appeal to you and be so outlandish that it will blow you away. I do […]

Where Has He Gone?

  The relationship had hit a rocky patch, albeit describing it as such would actually understate the manner in which our relationship has progressed as of late. It would be more accurate to describe it as a series of peaks and troughs. The devaluation began and the unpleasant behaviour has worsened. There have been peaks […]

Outrageous

  Fury is the instrument of the narcissist. It is a tool that we deploy in furtherance of our aims. The narcissist’s toolbox is a thing to behold. It contains many devices, objects and instruments that we deploy in order to secure our objectives. Other people may use these devices in a similar if diminished form […]

The Paranoia of Character Assassination

  The character assassination. Close cousin of the smear campaign. Built on a foundation of lies also, hurtful and effective. The smear campaign is outward facing namely it is aimed at third parties in order to affect their way of thinking. A character assassination is directed to and at you. There are three ways of […]