Wounded Creature

I would never hurt an animal, not intentionally. I am an expert marksman but I would never shoot a live animal. I am not fond of animals, I have never kept a pet and I never will. Caring for or hurting an animal has no interest for me. I should imagine that has taken a few […]

Idealised and Ignored

Why does the narcissist idealise you? Why does he then ignore you as he embarks on devaluation? HG Tudor offers his insight as a narcissistic sociopath into these two fundamental elements of the narcissistic dynamic and thereafter provides his enlightening observations on how these elements are played out in so many instances and occurrences between […]

Exorcism

The narcissist may be physically gone but his or her influence remains and it hurts. Whether you have escaped the narcissist or you have been cruelly discarded, the period thereafter is difficult, worrying and painful. Why can’t you move on? Why do you keep thinking about them? How can we exert such a hold over […]

Black or White : On The Shelf

    Life on the shelf is often difficult. Knowing The Narcissist is the only place which explains this dynamic with accuracy. You often find yourself isolated, unable to talk to others about the affair you are engaged with and if there are others you can speak to, they do not understand you are dealing […]