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Welcome to Knowing the Narcissist - what is it all about?
When we commence our devaluation of you it always comes out of nowhere. By now you should be acquainted with the fact that our modus operandi is that we strike from out of the blue. We arrive full of noise, colour and light although you never saw us coming. We turn on our manipulative […]
Would you like to know what my garden is like? Before I tell you, why don’t you stop and close your eyes and picture in your mind’s eye what you think my garden looks like? That’s right, conjure up the image that forms when you think of me and what my garden might be […]
You will never secure revenge over a narcissist unless you understand how the narcissist thinks and behaves. You will never secure revenge over a narcissist when you are blinded by emotional thinking. When victims believe they have obtained revenge, they will invariably have fallen onto The Devil´s Pitchfork and failed. Avoid that fate, by reading the work of […]
Often viewed as one of the harshest outcomes from an ensnarement with a narcissist is the issue of children and co-parenting with the narcissist. A frequent question that is asked of me by many individuals who find themselves in this predicament, worn down and unsure of how to go about this in an effective […]
It is often stated that you should mirror the narcissist. That is wrong. Such an act is contrary to your interests. Those who make such a suggestion are wrong and evidencing their lack of understanding about our kind. Why should you never mirror us? Let’s examine some examples. Take for example word salad. If […]