The Narcissistic Truths – No. 90

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25 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 90

  1. Nat says:

    HG if you always look for contrast, where do you get your negative fuel from during the golden perion?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Malign hoovers versus the previous IPPS if they keep getting in the way, malign treatment of occasional tertiary and secondary sources.

      1. Nat says:

        HG so if you don’t get enough negative fuel (e.g. because your malign hoovers versus the previous IPPS don’t work because she started NC)…. can that cause the golden period to end faster for your new IPPS because you need the negative fuel?

        Second question. Is there any correlation between the intensity of the relationship and the length of the golden period? For example: if your IPPS moves in very fast and you see her everyday – is the devaluation more likely to start sooner than with an IPPS that you see only during the weekends?

  2. Lisa says:

    HG was Ted Bundy a greater narcissist or a psychopath?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Both. A narcissistic psychopath falls within the Greater category.

  3. Noname says:

    Right, because she is ALONE on that pedestal.

    The long-standing and happy relationship is not about love, it is about INTIMACY and TRUST. To be TOGETHER. If you don’t have the intimacy and trust with your partner (any partner, not Narcs only), you have NOTHING then and your “divorce” is a question of time.

  4. Nat says:

    Oh I can’t wait when my replacement falls from grace… I’m sorry, I know it’s not her fault. But I’ve been triangulated with her for two years, fighting for his attention, listening how fabulous she is. And I lost, ending up at my psychiatrist. It’s been almost 6 months ladies and believe me every day is such a fight… but I made it here and will not stop.

  5. DebbieWolf says:

    IPPS or anyone entangled… skipping along unaware that they are teetering on the edge of the abyss at all times.

    Well…happy days then. Not.

    🐾
    Grrrrrrr.

    1. DebbieWolf says:

      Skipping along..”oh look..cloudy skies..still I’ve got my umbrella”…

      Huh… what you think you’ve got won’t help you.
      Teetering on the edge until you learn all about it.

      Even then… ditch the useless umbrella and fucking leap off yourself.

      Have books Will, go far…
      🐾

      1. DebbieWolf says:

        I think my new name should be The Escape Artist.

        Prison Break?
        Who?

        🐾
        HOOORAHHH.
        😊

  6. Lisa says:

    I don’t understand this one ? Can you explain HG or anyone ?? Thank you

    1. HG Tudor says:

      ….before you fall off (the pedestal).

  7. Nina says:

    It’s just a matter of time before the (IPPS), falls from grace. Tick, tock…

  8. AH OH says:

    time is an illusion

    1. Windstorm2 says:

      True, AhOh

    2. Twilight says:

      AHOh very true

      1. Windstorm2 says:

        Twilight
        Ha, ha! Our comments to Ah Oh we’re almost identical! Great minds run in the same channel – or was that Fools think alike? Lol!! πŸ˜„

  9. Yolo says:

    Is Amanda Knox a narc? If you are not familiar with her case footage is available.

  10. Narc affair says:

    Or the victim gets fed up and walks…day 3 nc tomo πŸ‘

    1. Cβ˜… says:

      Day three! One moment at a time! Moments add up to days, days to weeks, weeks to months and so on….you got this!

      1. Narc affair says:

        C β˜† …ty ive had some weak moments where ive second guessed myself but i remind myself why i walked. Heres to day 3.

        Me…ty and congrats on day 4 i know these early days arent easy. Stay strong!

    2. Me says:

      Good for you!!!! I’m day 4 since my last angry mail! So wish I never sent it … o well … let’s be strong this time shall we? Have a nice Sunday

    3. Indy says:

      Hey NarcAffair,

      Nice job! πŸ‘ŠπŸΌπŸ’ͺ🏼
      Like C⭐️ Said, one day at a time. we are all here if you need more encouragement and support!

      Sending positive vibes~~
      Indy

      1. Narc affair says:

        Hi indy
        Ty for your kind post it helps unfortuneately it didnt last long but with each cycle i feel im gaining more awareness. Im aware of where my weaknesses lay and how to improve those areas. One thing is for certain and thats that the narcs perspective is way different than mine and he feels differently than i do. To even have to wonder is a problem in itself.

  11. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD. says:

    Because they let you down and/or you got bored.

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