10 Years of Knowing the Narcissist : The Future
I have explained that there is still much to convey to you.
Here is your chance to have input into that.
What would you like me to address in the future? What aspects of narcissism and psychopathy would you like me to cover? Is there a burning issue you have that you want me to turn my attention to? Is there a series perhaps that I have not concluded you would want to see finished? Are there ideas you would like me to expand on?
This is your opportunity to tell me what you want me to talk and write about.
For once, you have a narcissistic psychopath listening to you.
Use it well.
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Mr. Tudor,
You are so good to me. Thank you for completing Tom Hardy. I was a bit surprised. I thought he might be narcissistic, because his analysis in some ways reminded me of Depp’s. I’m quite curious about the line where someone ends up as narcissistic vs a normal. At least one difference I noticed was that Depp took much longer to stop the drug abuse. I like how you’re sharing examples of people who have outside influences on them, like industry pressure and mistakes in youth. For me…it was the charity and his children as the driving force of getting clean that proved I wasn’t looking at a narcissist. I’m super excited for the Candace Owens conclusion too…because some of her circumstances are similar. Where profit or parents may have had more to do with the situation than pathology. But she has the lack of control environment to become the narc, whereas Hardy did not seem to.
Anyway, Happy Christmas! Thank you for everything!
Mr. Tudor,
I hope I can still make requests. I’m curious about what happened with Chloe & Mike. You left “When HG Met the Narcissists” on a cliffhanger. Will you please give us an update?
Mr. Tudor–
I found something today that brought up a thought of something else that it would be really interesting if you covered. You’ve shared a number of stories about your therapists…could you share some of the psychological techniques they taught you (if any) to address thoughts driven by your narcissism? How have you, being the Ultra, used these techniques to improve yourself and your dealings with others? Have you turned them on your victims or against the therapists to make them think you were healing?
If your victims (IPSS or IPPS) attended therapy whilst remaining involved with you, how did you address that situation, whatever the therapist was advising them to do to help them in their relationship with you? Did you ever get invited or charm their therapist? Something like that, while deeply disturbing, would be very beneficial to your readers and listeners in my view.
Thank you so much for all that you do and this lovely space for making suggestions. I’m super looking forward to whatever is next.
Thank you so much for the lovely hoover, sir. You called us all in easy as you please…it was such joy to see so many all digitally together, united in their appreciation for you and your work.
Dear HG, I just wish that all of your books were finished!
Indeed.
Thank you for this opportunity, sir!
I would love to continue to learn more about the Ultra! Your past and present, from all realms of your life of what would be okay to share with us and about your views on history, art, education, science, spirituality, global challenges and society!
My addition to the lists in more detail:
1. Mankind – its past and its future.
I would love to know about your observations regarding the evolution and devolution of our societies of today. The chaotic and structured matrices and their formations?
Ruling systems, leaders and the population (all classifications) and if they all need to work together at one point in order to evolve out of the destructive ideology and course?
What would be the identifiable characteristics of a leader and his/her leading pack who can unmistakably unite the opposing clans and help populations to identify a cause which will create an impact over lifetimes, helping humanity to unfollow the self-destructive mechanisms and course?
2. Power. The undeniable importance of power and the law of nature is impeccable but unbalanced power competes with life itself and causes destruction of all living organisms which are initially balanced out. Prey-predator cycles are initially intact but get then disturbed and destroyed by the build of society. Why the cruel and incomprehensible war with life when the society begins to distance itself from nature?
Is it the case that the art of power can also manifest, by those individuals who are imbued with it extensively, in ways to create a constructive outcome for the co-creation of life not against it?
I wonder if individuals simply do not feel like it’s their home because they are largely isolated from nature and that’s why they don’t care.
What needs to happen in order for them to begin to feel the connection with their home and care for it out of their own volition?
3. If I Ruled My World – by HG Tudor the Ultra: your world, sir, how would it be? Who would be the Knights of your Round Table? And how would your Kingdom be structured? The vision for your beautiful continent, your home and its prosperity?
Thank you, sir!
Thank you for your suggestions.
Addition to the list.
4. It is still difficult to keep narcissists and empaths (or normals) with autism or autistic traits apart. The behaviour can be so similar; the strong focus on the self, misunderstandings over simple things and ignition of fury/anger really fast, over nothing really. Apologising afterwards truly genuinely and I’m clueless to if it’s genuine or not. The only indicator I can base my decision on that a person can’t be a narcissist is the absent fuel matrix, so I tend to think it must be the similarity of the autistic traits and no more. But then remembering that narcissists can also have skimmed fuel matrices and also can have fuel substituted like alcohol or drugs (which is not the case in this situation) or video games, if I remember correctly re games.
Could a skimmed fuel matrix only involve a tiny number of colleagues at work, a tiny number of friends, a pet and just an IPPS and that’s it? And if a narcissist who for instance has autism is also prone to have skimmed fuel matrices, because of autism, or it doesn’t play a role at all? And for a narcissist with autism; how does it influence the whole thing, the construct? Would autism make them light versions of narcissists with smaller fuel matrices?
Thank you for considering, sir!
HG,
I have often wondered about the relationship between Neil Gaiman and Amanda Palmer. It’s become quite a sordid situation. Among other things, I would love to listen an analysis of each of them. I think it’s a case of Gaiman being ensnared by a Greater narcissist.
We all patiently await more on yourself, of course, through the various publications you have said are in the works.
I was wondering if you do still intend to write something on narcissism for children or, possibly teenagers?
Thank you for your suggestions WC.
Hi HG,
I would like further information about the following.
1. The Addiction. Specifically how it drives the emotions of the empath post disengagement / escape. Others I have supported experience enduring sadness. One described himself as similar to an alcoholic, choosing not to return to the narcissist whilst underneath it all still wanting to. Another has been out for a year and still feels sadness and loss. She accepts / believes that only time will resolve it. I experienced sadness too for a long time after escape, which makes me think I’m missing something. I couldn’t easily beat my own sadness, therefore perhaps I can’t adequately help with theirs. I want to know what I’m missing. Why do some empaths go through sadness, whereas others want revenge, feel anger etc? I know it isn’t down to schools, all three examples are of different lead schools, so what is the driver here?
2. Psychopathy. Ideally, a framework of different psychopath schools similar to your framework of narcissist schools, I imagine cadres would be similar to narcissist cadres.
3. Psychopathy. More on how you experience your own psychopathy. Life events, snapshots to illustrate.
4. You as a narcissistic psychopath. Drivers, which of the Prime aims and Necessary Triad take precedent in different circumstances and why ? Under what circumstances would narcissism be driving your thoughts and behaviour as opposed to your psychopathy? I feel like I could estimate the reasoning of a narcissist and of a pure psychopath but put the two together and the thinking becomes far less predictable.
5. Psychopathy. Anything. Haha!
6. I’d like you to write about the dinner party scenario you introduced.
7. Targeting. I’d like to see more targeting examples. Why women in the Asylum were targeted, why some were viewed as secondary sources without being promoted to primary, when is that decision made, how does that decision impact seduction?
8. I’d like to know how your interactions with the good doctors ended. Were there other memorable episodes that stand out to you? How do you view them both now in the context of your enhanced awareness? Were there benefits that you can now point to that enhanced your own well-being, stability, quality of life?
9. Anna’s suggestion about the blog and its impact on you.
10. Future you. What do you want for your future? How do you plan to acquire the stimulation provided by what you do professionally when you decide to step down from that role? How do you envisage your life changing? Have you noticed changes to your own temperament that might be occurring naturally now that you have a greater understanding of yourself and others?
11. I’d like to understand more about how the different empathic schools form.
12. I’d like a backpack of articles that you believe are the core articles we should give to people that come to us for help. The starting line up / foundation if you like. I kind of have my own back pack but I wonder if I’m missing something that you might include.
Thank you for your consideration.
Thank you for the suggestions TS, just a small list eh?!
Concise is my middle name after all HG!
TS: you made my wish list! Excellent requests! I hope HG provides…:)
Contagious,
Haha, did I? I hope so too.
Hi TS,
You weren’t very clear. Did you want to learn about Psychopathy? Lol!
Leigh,
See I tried really hard there. I voiced what I needed. And what do you go and do?! Hmm? Hmm?! 😉
TS,
Lol! I couldn’t resist!
TS,
I like the idea of the addiction. That’s a big part of my request about the third party hoovers issued to Swift’s exs. I think it’s a really different kind of hoover in a different than normal environment. It’s a public hoover. And I have seen such different reactions. Some that I think are the addiction…others not.
More wanting the dinner party! YES!! Please, sir. Please… *eager pleading look* We’re hooked with the promise.
I also love the future plans question. Super curious.
Hi Dani,
I really like your addition about the psychological techniques introduced by the therapists. That would be very interesting to know. I wonder if HG has surreptitiously passed some of them on to us already, or taken a technique and improved upon it?
The mirror technique?! Similar idea, different script!
Xx
Hi Truthseeker!
I wondered if some had been passed on already as well. And I wonder what ways Mr. Tudor found to thwart them when applied against him.
Imagine it…HG sitting there with steepled fingers behind a fine desk. Everything has a place, and everything is in its place. A fine suit in black or deep charcoal with a white shirt and a lovely tie held in place by a Death Star tie clip (every image should have a tinge of whimsy). The painted black appliance tries to explain as icy blue eyes drill a hole through appliance’s skull. The brilliant mind percolates with a dozen ideas for exacting future retribution as the appliance begs forgiveness.
*Wanders off, pondering the image*
I’d never wear a tie clip.
Hahaha!
Good to know, Sir. Tie clip deleted…
I shall alter my mental image to include…a Death Star mug on the desk holding steaming hot tea to keep the vocal chords of the Darth Tudor lubricated. The sun shines through the window behind him, casting a ethereal golden glow around the darkness…I hope this is better. I need whimsy…
Dani –
Great visuals.
And this so cracked me up:
“I hope this is better. I need whimsy…”
Dani,
nooooo,
never a white shirt!!
Go back to start 😉
Well, Z…if I must start again…
I imagine some wayward appliance approaching a deliciously tan man on the beach. He’s wearing only tangerine board shorts as he soaks up the sun. His sharp eyes spot a fin in the shallows…A brunette lady wearing a Princess Leia slave costume bathing suit sits beside him holding a drink tray and a bowl of fresh berries and pineapple. He pets her thigh and she giggles. The failed appliance stutters…trying to explain himself…A long elegant finger points to the waves…and the appliance begins a long march…as a guitar is played…the Jaws theme song.
Hello truthseeker6157,
HG has touched on the first part of your number 10 a little in the most recent livestream from November 2024 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fB9QGYi9vts, about 1 hour and 11 minutes in.
Hi Anna,
Thank you for posting the link and finding the relevant section for me. That’s really kind, I appreciate it. 🙂
You are welcome, Truthseeker6157, no problem.
Dear HG,
It would be great if you cover the following in the future:
1. Character traits. Can they change over time or/and due to abuse ? Like for example, love devotee – can several heartbreaks reduce it to a minimum level? Or anger?
2. Empath creation. Especially, the part about the environment. Does empath also either “slowly cooked” or in instance or born that way? Can an empath be born in a family without an abuse?
3. Narc Island. If I may suggest, just as an idea for men’s one, to do an island with a mix of narcs and psycopaths and play it like in mafia game. You appoint two or one killers among them in your mind. Each night after some interaction between them, someone dies and voters have to guess who is it. If correctly, throw this man into the ocean. If not, murders continues. Though maybe YT won’t like a video with killing or throwing into the ocean some political leaders. So probably no politicians to be included then.
4. 20 things HG loves/hates now or 20 more things HG wants you to know. An update would be interesting.
5. Ensnared series. 3rd part. I really love the intro and the ending music.
This series is very special to me, because of the circumstances under which I (binge) listened to it. I was in a small guest room, upstairs, lying in the bed, in the dark, watching the snow heavily falling behind the window against a light from a street lamp. I made a decision to file a divorce after holidays are over and already thought throw the steps I need to take to move out. I was just waiting. At that moment, I already absolutely didn’t care about his present silent treatments, he was engaged in, downstairs, pretty much all the time. I wasn’t chasing him asking what is wrong or please talk to me.
And my door was closed. Really CLOSED. Such a simple phrase – the door is closed. What does it mean? It means that you don’t want anyone to enter – simple as that, isn’t it? Who has never experienced that, wouldn’t understand. In my home, I did try to close/lock the doors, but it meant nothing for him. I cloudn’t hide, just be in my world, without an invasion. He would do things that would really creep me out. Due to his background and certain training, he was able to move very silently, like in a stealth mode. It was difficult for me to notice his movement. He often scares me off by jumping next to me unexpectedly from a corner or smth. Or I would be in our bedroom, with just bedside light, reading smth. The door is closed!! We had an armchair, diagonal from me, in the corner. So I continued to read, convinced I’m alone in the room. And then I would accidentally lift my eyes and in this almost dark corner, I would see him sitting in the armchair, just staring at me with a dead face. This was so creepy. It would freak me out. How long he was here? 20 mins, 30 ? It would be one, two seconds pause, while he continues to stare and then he would begin to laugh and say he was just joking, and that I should have seen my face. My objection, that I didnt find this fucking funny at all was dismissed. Or it could be, that he somehow gets under the blanket in the bed, probably while I went to a bathroom, and I wouldn’t notice the bump. And then like in some fucking “Grudge” movie, he would touch my leg, causing me to leap out from the bed, screaming. Again he would simply laugh. He would film me in the shower often, though I LOCKED the door, this hand with the phone. Fucking stop doing that. Squeaking sound of a baby monitor cameras following me.
Though I told him at the beginning how I hate such unexpeted things/surprises. Maybe others don’t and find this amusing too, but I hate it. How my abuser stalked me, so when I was outside, the world would seem to be behind a thick noise-muffled glass, people are laughing, walking, talking, doing things and me would just try to get from point A to point B thinking to myself, did he finally leave me alone or not. And then after several days had passed of not hearing anything from him, he would suddenly jump in front of me smiling, out of nowhere on the street. At the end, it almost drove me to commit a suicide, as the only way to escape him.
Now ofc, I understand, why my ex husband was doing it. He is a narcissist. But at the time, I couldn’t really get it how he says he loves me and keeps doing smth I hate so much.
So therefore, when I was listening to Ensnared Series, with a closed door, alone in a guest room, without him, absolutely determined to leave , it was a special state of my mind, like I’m coming back to life. I wanted to dig out myself from this grave. And since I figured that he is probably a midranger, I knew from HG’s videos, he wouldn’t try to physically prevent me from leaving and packing my things. I still wasn’t sure, but it turned out to be the case, luckily.
Now it’s such a pleasure not to sit in the car after work for an hour, just because I didnt want to go home. Plus my phone now remains in an exact spot where I left it, not mysteriously moving to another place.
Sorry, for so long message, I’ve just wanted to empathize how I would like to hear the continuation of an ensnared series and I hope Ian would escape Ashley, like me.
Thank you for your thoughts Arya and in particular the personal circumstances surrounding Ensnared.
Hi Arya,
It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. You told your ex narc that you didn’t like to be surprised like that. He used that information against you, trashed your boundaries and went ahead repeatedly scaring you anyway.
I’m glad you found the strength to leave when you did. I’m thankful that Ensnared gave you the final push to do what had to be done. I hope that there is another series of Ensnared too. Next time you can curl up and listen in peace.
Xx
Ary, wow! The circumstances surrounding your departure… scary.
Arya,
What an asshole! I’m glad you got away!
Wow! That is horrible. So glad you’re away Arya. ❤️
I also wanted to second empathy creation as a topic, HG. Thank you.
Arya: you are my hero! Well done! So happy you escaped!
Dear HG, thank you for the immense clarity and knowledge you share through your work. Your articles have been invaluable for me and for so many others who are trying to understand and overcome narcissistic abuse. I was wondering if you might consider completing some series that have remained unfinished for years, which many of us readers would find extremely valuable:
The Narcissistic Path – the third part addressing the periods concerning escape and discard.
Exposure during Escape – the scenario of exposure following discard.
But What If He Is There Too? – Part Two – scenarios when escaped the narcissist. Part Three, focusing on what can be done to protect oneself in these scenarios.
The Blast From the Past Hoover – explaining what the narcissist seeks, what they think during this type of hoover, and the different forms it may take.
The Deathbed Narcissist – continuing with The Upper Lesser Type B, the LMR, the MMR (Type A and B), and the UMR.
These topics feel very important and would be greatly appreciated by many of us if you could return to them.
Thank you for considering this.
Thank you for the suggestions.
The Deathbed Narcissist complete set has been finished as a book and just requires editing.
This is exciting!
HG, is the “editing” part awaiting an epilogue of Matrinarc’s ‘time’ when it comes?
Ha ha, you could very well think that.
“The Deathbed Narcissist complete set”
Can’t wait!
Thank you for giving us this opportunity! I would very much like to find out more about the impact of all this blog/online interaction on you. What changes, if any, have you noticed in yourself over the course of these ten years? We know it has made you more effective, but has it given you anything beyond that to share so much of your inner life with us and learn about ours in return?
Duly noted.
Seeing an example of how the blog has made you more effective would be fascinating as well, as long as you do not feel it would have a negative impact on people’s willingness to share.
I love that suggestion, Anna Plyance!
Hi AP,
I think this is a fantastic idea too! I hope Mr. Tudor agrees!
Love this suggestion AP!
Hello HG,
Congrats my friend on your wonderful achievement of reaching a huge milestone of 10 years on your blog! You do amazing work and I am very honored to be your YouTube friend and that we have done several collaborations together. Your work and knowledge are impeccable and you are in a class all your own.
I would love to have you continue your Into the Woods Series and your Educating HG series as both of these are left on a cliff hanger.
All the best,
Michelle
Royal Daily Tea
Thank you Michelle. Both of those will be appearing in books which I am working on.
I can’t wait for all these new books, Mr. Tudor! I’m very excited!
Same Leigh! Super excited to read them!
Mr. Tudor–
I think I have already said…but I will say again…as I like giving you fuel and control from this distance.
What I would like to see more of:
I want cliffhangers resolved for:
“If you go into the woods…” — You left David stranded up a tree and Clare trapped in your icy gaze.
“When This One’s Wife met HG” — You mention getting back at the hornet’s fan later for his behaviour…and we didn’t get the front row seat to your thoughts during a speech given by She-of-the-Beige-and-Banal. Regarding this series…you also mentioned something about the Ultra attending the Wedding of Ginge and Whinge…Details, sir, details. (holds up hands imploringly and gazes into the shadowy chair where Mr. Tudor sits with shining hopeful eyes)
“Educating HG” — I’m sure you seduced all the young women in that house…and if they found out about it…it is worth knowing. You’ve also hinted at other stories–like getting even with secondary school teachers that I would like more of.
“Restraining an Appliance” — Please don’t leave it there. There are way too many unanswered questions…and I have guesses about what happened and how it happened.
New Stories about HG:
When Cordon (A**hole) met HG — I want to know…so badly…so so much…what that annoying narcissist did to earn such scorn from the Ultra.
A story with you and another self-aware narcissistic psychopath interacting would be incredible, the higher the stakes the better–especially if you give them a proper slap so they know their place.
If you could juxtapose two stories with the same IPPS where one time a negative behaviour was directed at someone (like a scathing comment to waiter who brought the wrong order) and it benefited her (she got what she ordered as she ordered it) as much as you (you controlled the waiter) and then an instance where that behaviour is redirected at her (she made you a dinner you liked the week before when she was painted white but you claim to hate it that day because she’s now painted black). Preferably with her seeing the parallel between her previous benefit from that behaviour when not on the receiving end. I don’t know if something like that has ever happened, and the example may be a bad one…but it’s all I can think of that’s close to what I mean and it’s not really perfect. What impact does it have on victims when they have benefited from what could be seen as bad behaviours from the narcissist when they are in the victim’s place, if any?
Anything and everything where you are part of the story.
Tudor Scopes generally for YouTube. I like the mini ones for historical figures as well as the full length ones. I would enjoy a full length for Diana, Princess of Wales. And I think many listeners would also enjoy that. (I would especially love to hear what you thought when you met her…as you mentioned that you had…but you were young and you didn’t know her. What did young HG think of the famous magnet empath, the most loved royal of my lifetime in the world?) Please complete Tom Hardy. Please, sir.
If you could cover something about how third party hoovers for relationships long over affect victims–like how people repeatedly ask Swift’s exs about her. How do those third party hoovers affect her victims when they happen years later and how does that victim’s classification of empath, normal, etc. also cause difficulty for them or others they know? A narcissist/narcissistic person might snap back and make it stop more quickly. An empath might not want to do that. We’ve got some of their responses in audio and/or visual. (Swift is really the best example I know of this particular hoover. I don’t think she’s orchestrating the majority of it.) The 22 second phone call breakup hang-up pout she had…and her ex’s response was finally something like…”Yeah…but she never said who hung up on whom.” To me Swift is a unique situation where it is more likely to happen–Swift is world famous and most hoovers are probably not coming from people in her inner circle/her lieutenants/coterie.
I really want to know more about what creates the empath schools and cadres. What similarities of story are shared (if any) by contagion empaths? What similarities by Supers? What keeps the standard empath “Standard”? You’ve described Standard as the cake of all empaths. I’ve come to think of the majority schools as being more heavily iced cakes…and whatever minority schools a majority contagion, super, or codependent has…I think of as piped roses or sprinkles. What drives the triggers for different behaviour triggers for quad hybrids…if someone is carrier/martyr/geyser/saviour…what triggers each cadre? How can we learn our triggers to get out of a rut where our behaviour is causing us trouble?
The pie chart of majority schools of empath–standard, super, codependent, contagion, hybrid. Majority Cadre…and if a bar graph or another chart could be done with percentage total with that cadre. The percentages of those with magnet, with martyr, etc. no matter how small. And maybe comparison of amounts, insignificant, significant, etc…that might all take too long…I’d still be interested. But whatever you think would be most efficient. I’m curious.
Those are my major wishes right now. Thank you so much for the opportunity to ask for what we’re wanting more of.
Thank you for the comprehensive list. Dani.
Thank you for answering. I’m glad to provide big lists…when invited.
Also there was a story where you mentioned attending a dinner party and how you interacted with the attendees…I’m really interested in that.
I’m really grateful that I found your work. It’s a source of reassurance to be able to come here and read some articles when I am thinking about contacting someone who treated me poorly. It’s just the reminder I need sometimes…emotional thinking is tough to deal with…but I believe with your work…it gets easier.
Hi Dani,
I like reading your comments, a lot of times you have ideas I didn’t think about and I often find myself wanting the same answers as you. Xx
Thank you, Rebecca.
Hi Dani, regarding the video you mentioned…..yes, I’d like to see the follow up to that story. It was the quiet one that piqued me.
hi Asp Amp! I’m just so excited to read more of whatever Mr. Tudor shares…
Looking forward to upcoming publications about Educating HG and such. I really want them in audio…there’s nothing like listening to HG tell his story.
Hi Dani, sorry I missed your reply sooner…..
video format serves as an audio and visual (whether it includes moving picture or not). I do enjoy the video analyses. I found HG’s story about being drunk at 4 years old rather amusing. Knowing HG series revealed quite a lot and I’m glad he shared that so that people can understand more about him as a person and why he’s doing his work.
Oh yes, Dani, The Analysis! It would be fantastic to see that continued, and I know of several people who would be absolutely thrilled as well.
HI AP,
What is this video that you guys are talking about? It sort of sounds familiar but I can’t put my finger on it.
Can you put a link to it here?
The video is called “The Analysis”.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HOmdg4eHQ1k
(No need to thank me, HG’s fingers must be close to overheating and setting fire to things all on their own with the deluge of comments he has been moderating for the anniversary!)
Hello HG:
I concur the origins of empaths and narcissist and their schools and cadres is my top choice
But I personally cannot get enough of your tudorscopes as it is like homework, I take what I have learned and do my own analysis. It keeps me on my toes! Anyone you do is interesting but I previously gave you a list of famous women in history. Anyway I have bought every book, most everything in the knowledge vault and merchandise…. I still think you should sell your art and develop a spray called narc repellent lol.
Always a loyal fan!
Thank you Contagious.
Dani,
Its so nice to see your name pop up! You’ve been quiet lately and I was hoping you were ok.
“A story with you and another self-aware narcissistic psychopath interacting would be incredible, the higher the stakes the better–especially if you give them a proper slap so they know their place.” – I would love to hear about that too!
Hi Leigh,
I’m not sure if there has ever Bern a major interaction with another self aware narcissistic psychopath that can be shared. But an empath can ask…when invited by the Ultra.
The creation of various schools and cadres of both narcissists and empaths, how they come to be.
More about what it is in the empath that makes them accept, and sometimes seem to seek out, the narcissist. The addiction fleshed out a bit, maybe in regard to the different schools and cadres. I feel like our addiction is more to that underlying need than to the narcissist sometimes.
How you’re doing, where things are at in relation to your life, has Shieldmaiden been replaced, are you considering retiring from your career any time soon, things like that. Not trying to pry of course, but you are interesting.
I will love anything new that you do, as I have enjoyed and appreciate what you have always done.
Thank you A Victor, duly noted.
Oh Mr. Tudor,
I’d like to know if Shieldmaiden has been replaced too. How long was her golden period & devaluation? If you have disengaged from her, how long was she the IPPS? Was she the longest?
Sorry Leigh & AV,
I don’t know why my post fell within the Shieldmaiden conversation – I swear I thought scrolled down to the main comment box.
But I second that: an update on the Shieldmaiden would be welcome.
No problem WC, yours is a great request!
That’s ok, WC! Its always nice to see your comments pop up!
HG,
Although this may fall under the more general topic of the formation of the schools & cadres of narcissists, I wonder about the specific and often glaring differences between two narcissists. For example, TOW vs Camilla, in the context of the Royal Family – what is the difference that caused TOW to be unable to harness the residual benefits etc., of being part of the RF and instead, flouncing off to Canada and later the US? Whereas, Camilla, as an LMRN and a less capable narcissist, was able to successfully be at Charles’ side and fulfill her role dutifully – and even improve her image with the British people and the world at large?
Is it that Camilla is more intelligent, or is it down to the fact that she was already part of British culture to begin with? Was TOW’s inability to gracefully accept a role in the RF due to her upbringing, always getting what she wanted and being daddy’s little princess? Is she extra-entitled, as a narcissist? Is that even a thing – do some narcissists have a bigger sense of entitlement than average?
These are some things I wonder about…
I have made a note WC.
Thank-you HG.
Ooh interesting question WC. I’m really intrigued to know this too.
Thank-you Alexis Smith & AV…
Actually, HG’s video on TOW, ‘The Making of the Little Princess’ – just posted today -provides some context and interesting pieces of the puzzle.
Thank-you, HG.
Love these questions WC. Look forward to any answer HG may give to them.
Good question about Shieldmaiden, AV!
Aw, it’s just me being nosy. I have thought many times of her and hoped she’s okay. But I understand that it is personal for HG and that he may not wish to share.
LOL, AV! Me too! I just want to be nosy! I hope Mr. Tudor indulges my nosiness, but its totally understandable if he doesn’t.
If you please, HG….
Tom Hardy. What is he?
Thank you.
I think you’re a very good listener, Mr. Tudor.
There are 3 that I’d like you to finish. The book about The Creature, the Educating HG series & your Into the Woods series.
Thank you.
Thank you Leigh, I have made a note.
Dear HG,
I hope you finish and publish your book, LITTLE BOY LOST, i think was the title? Anyway, I would love for you to finish it. Xx❤️❤️
Rebecca,
I second that!
Mr. Tudor,
May I add to my list? I’d like you to finish “Little Boy Lost” too.
Dear HG,
I would like you to expand on:
How empaths are made, how psychopaths are made, how narcissistic psychopaths are made.
What are the different Schools and Cadres of the Psychopath? I know there are different degrees of psychpathy from growing up with my psychpath brother. Please expand on the degrees of psychopathy.
Please expand on the psychopathic traits in empaths. I found that very enlightening and want to dig further into it.
Please expand on your schools and cadres of the different empaths.
Thank you, HG! Xx❤️❤️
Thank you Rebecca, I have made a note.
Thank you, HG! I’m eager and ready to learn more from you! I’m still hungry for more knowledge and I’m happy I came to your garden of many fruits! Xx❤️❤️
Thank you, HG for all your work and knowledge, and for your replies to my questions and comments! Xx❤️❤️
I love your suggestions, Rebecca. Especially expanding on psychopathic traits in empaths.
Thank you Dani, I liked your suggestions too. Xx
I didn’t know this was a thing.. interested to learn more!
I find the idea of the creation of the creature kind of hard to grasp (I may not have read enough here yet tho) so this in relation to narcissists would be helpful too.