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You can still keep your distance and learn. Join the hunt to really know HG Tudor. Learn more about who he is, what he does and his Grand Design. Can you ascertain who sits at the Low Table? Learn about The Hourglass, The Crow Graveyard and the Pilgrimage of Ice and Snow and gain unrivalled […]
The relationship had hit a rocky patch, albeit describing it as such would actually understate the manner in which our relationship has progressed as of late. It would be more accurate to describe it as a series of peaks and troughs. The devaluation began and the unpleasant behaviour has worsened. There have been peaks […]
“I will pray for you because I know that you seek redemption at my loving hand. It is understandable. You are a lost soul. I know, hush, you need not speak for restoration hangs from my lips. Listen and allow my words to grant you the salvation that you are so desperate for. I […]
Narcissists abhor intimacy. Why is that? It is an instinctive and necessary response. Intimacy creates attachment. As I have explained in Attachment Is The Seat Of Misery we attach our victims to us, but we do not attach to you. If we became attached to our victims we would not thrive and survive because our […]
Why does the narcissist idealise you? Why does he then ignore you as he embarks on devaluation? HG Tudor offers his insight as a narcissistic sociopath into these two fundamental elements of the narcissistic dynamic and thereafter provides his enlightening observations on how these elements are played out in so many instances and occurrences between […]