The Narcissist’s Reality Gap

The Lesser Narcissist. Whether it is the out and out loser that is the Lower Lesser, the usually useless Middle Lesser or the successful but overbearing bully that is the Upper Lesser, the three have certain common traits. One of these traits is their delusional state. The Lesser exists in a bubble convinced of his […]

Mother Knows Best

      “I love you.” “I have heard this is a good one for getting a reaction from you because this is what you always want to hear.”   “You won’t ever amount to anything.” “Not while I am interfering in every facet of your life, controlling you and making your childhood and your […]

What You Say : What We Really Hear

  I make repeated mention of how the key to gaining freedom is to understand. One of the central principles to understand with our kind is the fact that our perspective is very different from yours. You gauge our responses, our actions and our words through the lens of your world view. That is understandable, […]

The Effect of No Contact on the Narcissist

You know that No Contact is the key to beating the narcissist, but how does it affect the narcissist? This Logic Bulletin explains to you what happens when you impose your No Contact Regime and how you can expect the narcissist to respond. It covers Lesser, Mid-Range and Greater Narcissists in fascinating detail. How does […]