Adored and Abhorred
Learn more about the narcissistic mind set and why you are up on the pedestal one moment and in the dust the next US e-book here UK e-book here CAN e-book here
Poll – How Have You Been Hoovered?
The hoover. Infamous weapon of our kind. Which type of types of hoover have you experienced? This poll is by reference to either those hoovers which formed part of the Initial Grand Hoover (when you escaped) or the Follow-Up Hoovers, down the line following disengagement or escape. Did you find yourself in receipt of repeated […]
A Letter To The Narcissist – No. 3
I forgive you. As one should not blame the blind for failing to see, or the deaf for not hearing the melodies we sing to you, I cannot blame you for what you are. I understand it comes from a place of shame, of pain, and from a childhood deprived of love. As the […]
Five Myths About The Narcissist
I always read views propounded about me and my kind, with considerable interest. I see many intelligent and well-reasoned observations about what we do and why we do it. Many carry considerable force. Other views are purely driven by the understandable anger and hurt that is engendered in people by us, although as I […]
Dealing With The Evidence
Proof. The empathic individual has certain traits which mean gathering proof and exhibiting that proof to the narcissist and other parties is highly important. An empathic person is honest, decent, believes in the truth and has to have the truth known. This is not done from any sense of gloating or about showing how […]