“Some day my prince will come.” “I need a knight in shining armour to come and rescue me.” “Where is my Prince Charming?” These are familiar comments and they all arise as a consequence of the myth that has been created and perpetuated. It is well established that my kind and me create an illusion […]

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You may not realise this but my kind and me are always prepared. We carry with us at all times a toolkit which is stocked with many useful tools and instruments to assist us in our day-to-day machinations. These tools enable us to carry out our quest to obtain fuel. Sometimes you may not realise […]

Christmas is on the horizon and for many it is a time for celebration and an opportunity to spend precious time with friends and family. I wrote in Danger : 50 Things You Should Not Do With A Narcissist about how our kind will spoil Christmas. Unsurprisingly, I am not the only one who knows […]

One of the defining features of our behaviour is the association with chaos. Our arrival into somebody’s life is described as a whirlwind. We are regarded as tempestuous, a tornado and a flailing dervish. People describe how we leave a trail of destruction behind us. Reference is made to the drama and the rollercoaster ride […]