Mother Knows Best

      “I love you.” “I have heard this is a good one for getting a reaction from you because this is what you always want to hear.”   “You won’t ever amount to anything.” “Not while I am interfering in every facet of your life, controlling you and making your childhood and your […]

A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 7

For you, S******  It has been two years since we were together as a couple, and I still think about you, purely because I loved you. I have come to realize through reading a most wonderful author, HG Tudor( I suggest you look him up to understand why) that you never loved me as you […]

You Wear Guilt

  You wear guilt like a noose around your neck. There it hangs, just waiting to be yanked by me and the tightening ligature around that slender neck will bring you back into line. I can then allow the noose to hang about your neck once again, ready to be used as soon as I […]

A Letter To the Narcissist – No. 4

  Dear Mr H You seduced, you stole, you exalted, you annihilated, You elevated, you decimated, you connected, you sucked me dry, You opened me up, you closed me down, You delivered me to ecstasy, you devalued and discarded me, You were sensual, you were sardonic, You made my heart smile, you tore out my […]

The Narcissist and Gifts

  What do narcissists think about giving? Well, the starting point is that we are a gift to the world and really, should there be any need for us to give anything more? Of course there is; the giving of gifts provides us with yet another opportunity to manipulate people, exert control and ultimately draw […]